Dear Dr. Kinky Team,
I am a submissive woman and go alone to BDSM clubs or kinky parties from time to time. I love the atmosphere, the flirting, playing with strangers (after agreement), and also that it can sometimes be a bit more invasive – depending on the party's motto, I even find that hot. I have no problem being approached or touched, as long as it remains respectful.
Dear Dr. Kinky Team,
I've been with my boyfriend for three years. We have a really good relationship – lots of trust, humor, shared interests, and also fulfilling sex life. He's rather submissive, I tend to vanilla with light dominant moments, and so far everything has fit perfectly.
Dear Dr. Kinky Team,
I've been in a loving relationship with my partner for four years (he's switch, but tends dominant), and we live a very fulfilling BDSM dynamic. I'm submissive and from the beginning noticed that especially intense, hard play forms excite me extremely: Strong pain (e.g. hard spanking, caning, needles, waxplay to the limit), combined with strong humiliation and degradation (verbal humiliation, objectification, "being used" like an object).
Dear Dr. Kinky Team,
I've been with my girlfriend for two years and am very much in love. Our relationship is great – we understand each other perfectly, have lots of fun together, and have good sex. She's loving, open, and adventurous in bed, but rather "vanilla": Classic sex, cuddle sex, sometimes oral – nothing extreme.
Dear Dr. Kinky Team,
I've been in a steady relationship with my partner for two years, and we have a very intense D/s dynamic. I'm submissive and increasingly identify as "slave" – I love it when he controls me, gives me orders, and uses me. Especially exciting is humiliation and degradation: He calls me "slut," "useless toy," or "his property," makes me crawl, beg in front of him, or do things that humiliate me (e.g. please him orally while he verbally degrades me). The feeling of being completely humiliated and used is the absolute kick for me – I cum most intensely and feel totally fulfilled and close to him afterward.
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