One week for both of you –

Discover Femdom and female dominance in a new and pleasurable way

Many couples find themselves at a similar point:

He has carried the longing for years to surrender to her – as a slave, in the submissive role, to be dominated and guided. Some dream of this only in the bedroom, others wish for a deeper dynamic, even 24/7.

She, on the other hand, experiences it very differently: Some feel overwhelmed, insecure, or still have little personal desire for the dominant role. Others feel genuine interest or even enthusiasm – and yet still stumble over inner blocks, shame, insecurity, the pressure of “having to do it right,” or the fear of merely serving his fantasies. Many women experience that the responsibility suddenly becomes a burden, that they feel like a service provider, or that everyday life, family, and work make the dynamic difficult.

Exactly for these couples – no matter where you currently stand – there is our holiday week with coaching for FEMDOM couples.

We help you find a dynamic in which she discovers her very own form of female dominance – one that suits her, that arouses her, and that she experiences with genuine joy and pleasure. Not simply to work through his wish list, but so that both of you have fun and pleasure in it.

BDSM and Femdom are not a simple “hitting” exercise and not a ready-made role-play from a film. It is an art of pleasure – creative, deep, connecting, and endlessly varied. Properly understood and carefully explored, it can sustainably enrich your sexuality and your partnership.

What awaits you this week

On the beautiful island of El Hierro you will primarily enjoy a relaxing couple’s holiday: nature, hiking, bathing coves, the sea, cycling tours, diving – or simply relaxation and time together.

In addition, there will be 1.5–2 hours of individual coaching and gentle play sessions each day (in the evening or at times that suit you). Accommodation is included.

We, Queen Josephine and her Sub SlaveD, will accompany you:

• with more than 30 years of experience in the BDSM field
• as a couple who have lived this dynamic for almost 10 years and know the typical initial and integration difficulties from their own experience
• and as a psychologically and therapeutically trained team (sexual, family, and couple therapists)

Together we look at your individual situation: fears, shame, blocks, secret desires, family and professional reality, everyday life. We explore the world of BDSM with you – what exists, why and how true pleasure arises, how to play safely and pleasurably. In our play dungeon you can try things out, discover, and get to know them without performance pressure and without “musts.”

We take you by the hand and guide you slowly and carefully to the place where both of you can find genuine pleasure and fulfilment. No right or wrong. No coercion. Only discovery – in your own way.

The goal is a true win-win situation: a dynamic that enriches both of you, deepens your connection, and makes your sexuality sustainably more positive and pleasurable – whether you are just beginning to feel curious or already have some experience and are now looking for the next, more sustainable level.

What is included

The price includes:

• 5 x 1.5 – 2 hours of coaching and play with us
• 7 nights in a cosy 25 m² wooden bungalow with private bathroom & sea view and a small garden
• Outdoor bar with communal kitchen with barbecue and pizza oven, large dining table
• Professionally equipped BDSM play dungeon with a wide variety of play possibilities
• Outdoor play areas on the finca grounds

Price: €1,350.00 per week / couple

Not included: Travel to El Hierro, meals

Who we are

Queen Josephine & SlaveD

The couple behind the Femdom Couple Coaching Week

Queen Josephine and SlaveD have lived and worked for many years as a couple in a realistic, loving, and intensively lived FLR/Femdom relationship. What sets them apart is the rare combination of solid psychological and therapeutic expertise, decades of BDSM experience, and the authenticity of a couple who not only teach this dynamic but live it every single day.

Queen Josephine studied law, psychology, and political science. Around ten years ago she was introduced to the world of BDSM by her partner SlaveD. What began as curiosity developed into a deep passion. Today she lives and embodies a playful, lovingly strict female dominance. She enjoys leadership and control, takes pleasure in her playful sadism, and is a pronounced reaction fetishist – she reads and enjoys the subtle responses of her counterpart. As a coach and therapist (couple, family, and sexual therapy) she accompanies people in finding their own form of dominance and pleasure – without pressure, without clichés, with a great deal of sensitivity and clarity.

SlaveD is a qualified psychologist, therapist, coach, lecturer, and book author. He brings more than 30 years of experience in BDSM, first as a switcher and today as the sub and masochistic slave of Queen Josephine in a 24/7 Femdom dynamic. His psychological and therapeutic expertise, combined with lived submission, makes him a particularly empathetic and clear companion for men and couples who wish to walk the path of surrender.

Together they live BDSM not as a porn fantasy but as a lifestyle: as a loving, deeply connected couple and a strong team that supports each other, with a great deal of depth, humour, and mutual respect. In their FLR relationship they see themselves as mental equals – the transfer of power is conscious, consensual, and enriching for both. They understand BDSM as a pleasurable art that can deepen partnership and sexuality when it is lived authentically and with genuine mutual mindfulness.

Exactly this attitude and experience are what they bring to the coaching week: they know the insecurities, blocks, and challenges from their own practice and accompany couples carefully, competently, and without performance pressure on the path to a dynamic that feels right and pleasurable for both.