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Introductory Session for BDSM Beginners
Would you like to discover the fascinating world of BDSM gently, safely and more intensively? Then our new Introductory Session with overnight stay is the ideal entry for you – whether alone as a lady or gentleman, as a couple or in any sexual orientation.
We, Queen Josephine and her Sub/Slave SlaveD, will accompany you with over 30 years of experience as well as pedagogical and psychological training sensitively on your first steps. Now with the possibility to stay overnight, arrive slowly and let the experience really take effect.
For whom is this session ideal?
- Single ladies: Who want to discover their submissive or dominant side and try out first techniques.
- Single gentlemen: Who want to experience pleasurable submission or explore dominant inclinations.
- Couples: Who want to discover new things together, experiment and enter the BDSM world under professional guidance.
You can actively participate, learn new techniques, simply watch or approach slowly – everything according to your wishes and limits.
Your gentle and safe entry – now with overnight stay
Our goal is a positive, intense and satisfying first experience – without pressure, but with plenty of pleasure, trust and time. The session is always individually tailored to your needs, fantasies and limits. The overnight stay creates space for a real arrival, getting to know each other and letting it sink in.
Schedule of the Introduction Session with overnight stay
- Arrival from 5:00 p.m.: Relaxed arrival and getting to know each other with a drink or a glass of wine. Open introductory conversation about fantasies, experiences, expectations, taboos and fears. Together we clarify the basics, explain the fundamentals of BDSM play and create a safe, trusting framework.
- Into the play cave dungeon – first tries & getting to know: We go together into the play cave dungeon. Here you can see, feel and try out everything there is: play techniques, toys and how different things feel. A careful getting-to-know and trying out of the BDSM utensils – completely without pressure, with the goal of building trust and becoming curious.
- Shared dinner: We dine together in a relaxed atmosphere. Time to talk, laugh and arrive.
- Preparation for the session: Changing clothes, showering and slowly getting into the mindset of your own role. We support you in attuning yourself mentally and physically to the upcoming experience.
- The actual session in the play cave dungeon: Together we experience an individual session. Everything at the pace and within the framework that feels right for you – gentle, pleasurable and safe.
- Aftercare: Loving aftercare and having another drink together. Time to calm down and feel the effects.
- Next morning: Shared breakfast and detailed debriefing of the session. We answer all questions, reflect together and say goodbye in peace.
Basic principles
SSC – Safe, Sane, Consensual. Your safeword immediately stops any action. Your safety and well-being always have the highest priority.
Booking & Prices
BDSM Introduction including overnight stay, food and all drinks
- As a couple: 420 €
- As a single person: 395 €
(not including travel, airport transfer, final cleaning of apartment and dungeon)
Let yourself be guided sensitively and with sufficient time into the world of pleasurable submission and sensual dominance. Discover, experiment and enjoy – safely and gently at the hand of Queen Josephine and SlaveD.
Interested? Contact us via the registration form. We look forward to designing your gentle and intensive entry into the BDSM world!
Arrival to El Hierro for your BDSM Vacation
There are several ways to get to El Hierro:
1. Via Gran Canaria (Flight)
Book a flight to Gran Canaria (LPA). From there, continue with the Canary Islands airline Binter to El Hierro (VDE).
2. Via Tenerife South (Ferry)
Most international flights arrive at Tenerife South (TFS). From the airport, take a taxi (approx. 25 €) to the harbor or the bus to Los Cristianos. From there, the ferry departs to El Hierro.
3. Via Tenerife North (Flight)
Flights from the Spanish mainland usually land at Tenerife North (TFN). From there, Binter flies directly to El Hierro.
We are happy to help you find the right flights.
Booking and Payment
Please note: The booking form is for binding bookings only. For general inquiries and availability checks, please use our contact form.
Booking Process
Once we receive your booking request, we will check the availability of the requested apartment for your desired travel period. You will receive a booking confirmation by email within 24 hours, including all relevant details.
Your booking only becomes binding upon receipt of your deposit. After sending you the booking confirmation, we will not reserve your accommodation until we are able to debit your deposit. Without deposit the accommodation will stay available to others for booking.
Payment Terms
All internal club services are settled exclusively through our internal points system, Queen Dollar. Members can earn Queen Dollars through active participation in the association or through voluntary financial support of the association.
The use of our holiday accommodations is an internal club service and is charged exclusively in Queen Dollars.
If you already have sufficient Queen Dollars, they will be used for your booking.
If your balance is insufficient, you may increase your Queen Dollar account through voluntary financial support of the association. The corresponding Queen Dollars will be credited to your account and immediately applied to your booking.
- The deposit amounts to 50% of the total booking amount and will be deducted from your Queen Dollar account in your member profile.
- For bookings made within 6 weeks prior to arrival or for stays of fewer than 7 nights, the full amount is due immediately.
- The remaining balance must be paid no later than 6 weeks before arrival.
Club Membership
If you are not yet a member, we will send you your personal access credentials for our private community platform together with your booking confirmation. Membership is free of charge.
Cancellation Policy
If you need to cancel your booking, please notify us in writing.
Refunds are made exclusively in Queen Dollars. Refunds in real money are not possible.
- Up to 4 weeks before arrival: 100% refund (in Queen Dollars)
- Up to 3 weeks before arrival: 25% cancellation fee
- Up to 2 weeks before arrival: 50% cancellation fee
- Up to 1 week before arrival: 75% cancellation fee
- Less than 7 days before arrival or in case of no-show: 100% cancellation fee
The member expressly reserves the right to prove that the association suffered no damage or substantially less damage than the applicable cancellation fee.
Changes to an existing booking are treated as a cancellation of the original booking followed by a new booking.
You may nominate a replacement guest at any time. In this case, no cancellation fees will apply.
Early Departure
No refund will be granted for unused nights in the event of early departure.
Force Majeure
If, due to force majeure or other unforeseeable circumstances beyond the association's reasonable control (such as natural disasters, fire, flooding, government orders, pandemics, war, strikes, or similar unforeseen events), the association is unable to provide the booked accommodation, the association shall be released from its obligation to provide the accommodation.
Any Queen Dollars already charged for the booking will be fully credited back to the member's account.
Any further claims, in particular claims for damages or reimbursement of travel expenses, accommodation costs, or other consequential losses, are excluded to the extent permitted by applicable law.
Force majeure affecting the member does not generally release the member from the agreed cancellation policy.
In justified individual cases, the association may, at its sole discretion, waive all or part of the cancellation fees. Members have no legal entitlement to such an exception.
By making a booking, you confirm that you have read and accepted these terms and conditions.
House Rules on the BDSM Finca
We appreciate open-minded, stylish guests and foster an atmosphere of mutual respect and appropriate conduct.
- A "no" must always be respected without exception. For BDSM activities, the SSC principle (Safe, Sane, and Consensual) applies at all times.
- Smoking is permitted only in the outdoor areas. Please dispose of cigarette butts in the ashtrays. Smoking is prohibited indoors.
- All rooms, equipment, toys, furniture, and BDSM play furniture must be used with care. Anyone who causes damage, destruction, or loss is liable for the resulting costs.
- Responsible alcohol consumption in pleasant company is welcome—please know and respect your own limits.
- Photographing or filming other people on the finca without their explicit permission is prohibited.
- When using the association's services and facilities, all applicable laws must be observed and the rights of third parties respected. Activities and substances prohibited under applicable law are not permitted anywhere on the finca. Violations may result in temporary or permanent exclusion from association activities.
We look forward to your visit and a wonderful, respectful time together!
