Dear Dr. Kinky Team,
I've studied political science, actively engage in feminist groups, and see myself as a convinced feminist. I fight for equality, body shaming freedom, self-determination, and against patriarchal structures – that's an important part of my identity.
Read more: I'm a Feminist – Can I Still Have Submissive Fantasies and Want to Submit?
Dear Dr. Kinky Team,
I've been active in the BDSM scene for a few years and about two years ago really discovered my dominant side. At first, everything was more playful – light bondage, a few spanks, verbal commands. But the more I try, the more intense my preferences become.
Dear Dr. Kinky Team,
I'm a 48-year-old man, single, professionally successful, and to outsiders completely "normal." Since puberty, I've had strong BDSM and kinky fantasies – especially submissive inclinations and the desire to surrender to a dominant woman. These fantasies are intense, arousing, and keep coming back, no matter how much I try to repress them.
Dear Dr. Kinky Team,
I'm married (but my wife knows nothing of my inclinations and has no interest in it either), professionally successful, and outwardly completely "normal." For many years, I've had intense BDSM fantasies, especially the idea of serving a dominant woman and surrendering to her. So far, I live it out alone – I watch Femdom porn and satisfy myself. But that no longer suffices me someday. I long for a real dominant partner with whom I can finally live it out.
Read more: I'm a Submissive Man – How Do I Find a Dominant Woman (Femdom) That Fits Me?
Dear Dr. Kinky Team,
I've been happily married for eight years, we have two small children, and so far fulfilling, regular sex that I'd describe as rather "classic." Lately, however, my husband makes more and more allusions to BDSM topics – sometimes a comment here, sometimes a video suggestion there. Recently, after sex, he confessed to me openly that he wishes I'd dominate him and he can be my "slave."
Read more: Help, My Partner Wants to Be My Slave – How Do I Become a Confident Femdom?
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