Dear Dr. Kinky Team,
My partner and I have been together for nine years, married, have a good sex life, and a stable relationship with lots of trust and openness. For about a year now, both of us have fantasized more and more about cuckolding: The idea that I have sex with another man (or men) while he watches, hears about it, or knows – and that humiliates him, but at the same time excites him extremely.
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Dear Dr. Kinky Team,
I'm single, professionally successful, and consciously submissive for some years. I know exactly what I want: A serious, responsible master for a long-term relationship – ideally with clear D/s dynamic, trust, emotional depth, and perhaps even perspective on living together. I long to be able to surrender completely to a man, serve him, and be led by him.
Read more: I'm Looking for a Dom, But Most Men Just Want Quick Sex or Are Fake Doms
Dear Dr. Kinky Team,
My boyfriend and I have been together for three years and about a year ago discovered our BDSM side – I'm dominant, he's submissive. We've already tried a lot (bondage, spanking, roleplays), and everything is great fun for us. For a few months now, he's been talking more and more about wanting me to control his orgasms and keep him chaste – with a cock cage.
Read more: Chastity and Orgasm Control: How Does Chastity Work in a Relationship?
Dear Dr. Kinky Team,
My husband and I have been together for eight years, married, and have a very fulfilling Femdom dynamic – I'm dominant, he's submissive. Our sex life is intense and varied, and for a few years now we've also played with other people: We go to clubs together, have occasional play partners (mostly submissive men for me or dominant women for him), and from time to time invite a third person to our home.
Read more: BDSM and Jealousy: How Do We Handle Multiple Play Partners or Polyamory?
Dear Dr. Kinky Team,
I'm 38, self-employed, financially independent, emotionally stable, and consciously dominant for some years. I know exactly what I want: A long-term partner who serves me submissively – not only in the bedroom, but also in everyday life (e.g. have my back, take on tasks, pamper me). I'm looking for a real relationship with depth, trust, shared values, and a clear D/s dynamic, ideally with perspective on living together or even marriage.
Read more: I'm Looking for a Submissive Man, But All Who Write Are Just After Sex
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