Dear Dr. Kinky Team,
I've been in a loving relationship with my partner for four years (he's switch, but tends dominant), and we live a very fulfilling BDSM dynamic. I'm submissive and from the beginning noticed that especially intense, hard play forms excite me extremely: Strong pain (e.g. hard spanking, caning, needles, waxplay to the limit), combined with strong humiliation and degradation (verbal humiliation, objectification, "being used" like an object).
Dear Dr. Kinky Team,
I've been with my girlfriend for two years and am very much in love. Our relationship is great – we understand each other perfectly, have lots of fun together, and have good sex. She's loving, open, and adventurous in bed, but rather "vanilla": Classic sex, cuddle sex, sometimes oral – nothing extreme.
Dear Dr. Kinky Team,
I've been in a steady relationship with my partner for two years, and we have a very intense D/s dynamic. I'm submissive and increasingly identify as "slave" – I love it when he controls me, gives me orders, and uses me. Especially exciting is humiliation and degradation: He calls me "slut," "useless toy," or "his property," makes me crawl, beg in front of him, or do things that humiliate me (e.g. please him orally while he verbally degrades me). The feeling of being completely humiliated and used is the absolute kick for me – I cum most intensely and feel totally fulfilled and close to him afterward.
Read more: I Want to Be Humiliated and Used as a Slave, But I'm Afraid of Emotional Injuries
Dear Dr. Kinky Team,
My partner and I have been together for nine years, married, have a good sex life, and a stable relationship with lots of trust and openness. For about a year now, both of us have fantasized more and more about cuckolding: The idea that I have sex with another man (or men) while he watches, hears about it, or knows – and that humiliates him, but at the same time excites him extremely.
Read more: Cuckolding Excites Us Both – But I'm Afraid It Will Harm Our Relationship
Dear Dr. Kinky Team,
I'm single, professionally successful, and consciously submissive for some years. I know exactly what I want: A serious, responsible master for a long-term relationship – ideally with clear D/s dynamic, trust, emotional depth, and perhaps even perspective on living together. I long to be able to surrender completely to a man, serve him, and be led by him.
Read more: I'm Looking for a Dom, But Most Men Just Want Quick Sex or Are Fake Doms
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