Dear Dr. Kinky Team,
My boyfriend and I have been together for three years and about a year ago discovered our BDSM side – I'm dominant, he's submissive. We've already tried a lot (bondage, spanking, roleplays), and everything is great fun for us. For a few months now, he's been talking more and more about wanting me to control his orgasms and keep him chaste – with a cock cage.
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Dear Dr. Kinky Team,
My husband and I have been together for eight years, married, and have a very fulfilling Femdom dynamic – I'm dominant, he's submissive. Our sex life is intense and varied, and for a few years now we've also played with other people: We go to clubs together, have occasional play partners (mostly submissive men for me or dominant women for him), and from time to time invite a third person to our home.
Read more: BDSM and Jealousy: How Do We Handle Multiple Play Partners or Polyamory?
Dear Dr. Kinky Team,
I'm 38, self-employed, financially independent, emotionally stable, and consciously dominant for some years. I know exactly what I want: A long-term partner who serves me submissively – not only in the bedroom, but also in everyday life (e.g. have my back, take on tasks, pamper me). I'm looking for a real relationship with depth, trust, shared values, and a clear D/s dynamic, ideally with perspective on living together or even marriage.
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Dear Dr. Kinky Team,
I've studied political science, actively engage in feminist groups, and see myself as a convinced feminist. I fight for equality, body shaming freedom, self-determination, and against patriarchal structures – that's an important part of my identity.
Read more: I'm a Feminist – Can I Still Have Submissive Fantasies and Want to Submit?
Dear Dr. Kinky Team,
I've been active in the BDSM scene for a few years and about two years ago really discovered my dominant side. At first, everything was more playful – light bondage, a few spanks, verbal commands. But the more I try, the more intense my preferences become.
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