One Week for Both of You –

Discover Femdom and Female Dominance in a New and Lustful Way

Many couples find themselves at a similar point:

He has carried the longing within himself for years to surrender to her – as a slave, in the devoted role, to be dominated and led. Some dream of it only in bed, others wish for a deeper dynamic up to 24/7.

She, on the other hand, experiences it very differently: Some feel overwhelmed, insecure or still have little personal desire for the dominant role. Others do feel interest or even enthusiasm – and yet stumble over inner blockages, shame, insecurity, the pressure of “having to do it right” or the fear of only serving his fantasies. Many women experience that the responsibility suddenly becomes a burden, that they feel like a service provider, or that everyday life, family and work make the dynamic more difficult.

Exactly for these couples – no matter where you currently stand – there is our holiday week with coaching for FEMDOM couples.

We help you find a dynamic in which she discovers her very own form of female dominance – one that suits her, that arouses her and that fills her with genuine joy and lust. Not simply to work through his wish list, but so that both of you have fun and pleasure in it.

BDSM and Femdom are not a simple “hit and slap” exercise and not a ready-made role-play from a film. It is an art of lust – creative, deep, connecting and infinitely diverse. Properly understood and carefully explored, it can sustainably enrich your sexuality and your partnership.

What awaits you this week

On the beautiful island of El Hierro you will primarily spend a relaxing couple’s holiday: nature, hiking, bathing coves, sea, bike tours, diving – or simply relaxation and time together.

In addition, there are 1.5–2 hours of individual coaching and gentle play sessions every day (in the evenings or at times that suit you). Accommodation and use of the play dungeon are included.

We, Queen Josephine and her sub SlaveD, will accompany you:

• with over 30 years of experience in the BDSM field
• as a couple who have lived this dynamic for almost 10 years and know the typical initial, everyday and integration difficulties from their own experience
• and as a psychologically and therapeutically trained team (sexual, family and couple therapists)

Together we look at your individual situation: fears, shame, blockages, secret wishes, family and professional reality, everyday life. We explore and deepen the world of BDSM with you – what there is, why and how real lust arises, how to play safely and lustfully. In our play dungeon you can try things out, discover and get to know them without performance pressure and without “having to”.

We take you by the hand and lead you slowly and carefully to where both of you can find genuine lust and fulfilment. No right or wrong. No compulsion. Only discovery – in your own way.

The goal is a genuine win-win situation: A dynamic that enriches both of you, deepens your connection and makes your sexuality sustainably more positive and lustful – whether you are just curious or have already had first experiences and are now looking for the next, more sustainable level.

What is included

Included in the price are:

• 5 × 1.5–2 hours of coaching and play with us
• 7 overnight stays in the cosy 25 m² wooden bungalow with private bathroom & sea view as well as small garden
• Outdoor bar with communal kitchen (fridge, barbecue, pizza oven) and large dining table
• Professionally equipped BDSM play dungeon with a wide variety of play possibilities
• Outdoor play areas on the finca grounds

Price: 570 € plus accommodation on the finca

Not included: Travel to El Hierro and meals

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Who we are

Queen Josephine & SlaveD

The couple behind the Femdom Couple Coaching Week

Queen Josephine and SlaveD have lived and worked for many years as a couple in a realistic, loving and intensively lived FLR/Femdom relationship. What distinguishes them is the rare combination of solid psychological and therapeutic competence, decades of BDSM experience and the authenticity of a couple that not only teaches this dynamic but lives it every day.

Queen Josephine studied law, psychology and political science. About ten years ago she was introduced to the world of BDSM by her partner SlaveD. What began as curiosity developed into a deep passion. Today she lives and embodies a playful, lovingly strict female dominance. She enjoys leadership and control, takes pleasure in her playful sadism and is a pronounced reaction fetishist – she reads and enjoys the fine reactions of her counterpart. As a coach and therapist (couple, family and sexual therapy) she accompanies people in finding their own form of dominance and lust – without pressure, without clichés, with a lot of sensitivity and clarity.

SlaveD is a graduate psychologist, therapist, coach, lecturer and book author. He brings over 30 years of experience in BDSM, initially as a switcher, today as a sub and masochistic slave of Queen Josephine in a 24/7 Femdom dynamic. His psychological and therapeutic expertise, combined with lived submission, makes him a particularly empathetic and clear companion for men and couples who want to take the path into surrender.

Together they live BDSM not as a porn fantasy, but as a lifestyle: as a loving, deeply connected couple and strong team that supports each other, with a lot of depth, humour and mutual respect. In their FLR relationship they see themselves mentally as equals – the transfer of power is conscious, consensual and enriching for both. They understand BDSM as a lustful art that can deepen partnership and sexuality when it is lived authentically and with genuine mutual mindfulness.

Exactly this attitude and experience they bring into the coaching week: They know the uncertainties, blockages and challenges from their own practice and accompany couples carefully, competently and without performance pressure on the path to a dynamic that is right and lustful for both.

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Getting to El Hierro for your BDSM Holiday

There are several ways to reach El Hierro:

1. Via Gran Canaria (flight)

Book a flight to Gran Canaria (LPA).
From there you fly with the Canarian airline Binter onwards to El Hierro (VDE). (Luggage must be rechecked.)

• Last flight: approx. 16:00
• Price (non-residents): approx. 125 € per person one way
• Recommendation: Arrive at LPA before 15:00

2. Via Tenerife South (ferry)

International direct flights usually land at Tenerife South (TFS).
From the airport take a taxi (approx. 25 €) to the port or bus (to the centre; approx. 3 €) of Los Cristianos.
From there the ferry goes to El Hierro (Valverde), usually only one ferry per day.

• Ferry departure: approx. 17:00, Saturdays 12:00 (Fred Olsen)
• Price (non-residents): approx. 55 € per person one way
• Recommendation: Arrive at TFS before 15:00

3. Via Tenerife North (flight)

Flights from the Spanish mainland and other islands usually land at Tenerife North (TFN).
From there Binter flies directly to El Hierro (VDE).

• Last flight: approx. 17:30
• Price (non-residents): approx. 89 €

We are happy to help you find suitable flights.

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Booking and Payment

Booking and Cancellation Conditions

1. Membership and Booking Requirements

Registration is required to book accommodation.
If the booker is not yet registered or not yet a member, registration takes place automatically during the booking process. Booking of accommodation is reserved exclusively for association members.

With registration the booker automatically becomes a Patron Member of the association. Membership is free of charge.

Bookings can only be made via the association’s booking website. A booking is only confirmed after full payment has been received.

2. Non-Cancellability and Flex Booking

A confirmed booking is generally non-cancellable.

Optionally, an extra FLEX BOOKING can be added when booking. With the Flex Booking it is possible to change the booking free of charge to another date up to 30 days before arrival at the latest.

Timely written notification (by e-mail) is required. The amount already paid will be credited to the member as Queen Dollars (QD) on the profile account. With these Queen Dollars the member can independently book a new date or use the Queen Dollars elsewhere on the association website.

A cash refund is excluded in all cases.

3. Cancellation and Rebooking Fees (ONLY WITH FLEX BOOKING)

If a cancellation or rebooking takes place less than 30 days before arrival, the following cancellation fees apply:

• Up to 4 weeks before arrival: 100 % refund in Queen Dollars (QD)
• Up to 3 weeks before arrival: 25 % cancellation fee
• Up to 2 weeks before arrival: 50 % cancellation fee
• Up to 1 week before arrival: 75 % cancellation fee
• From 7 days before arrival or in case of no-show: 100 % cancellation fee

The member expressly reserves the right to prove that the association has suffered no damage or substantially less damage.

Rebookings are considered a cancellation of the original booking followed by a new booking.

4. Substitute Person

The member may name a substitute person at any time. This does not incur any cancellation costs.

5. Early Departure

No refund will be given for unused overnight stays.

6. Force Majeure

If the association is unable to provide the booked accommodation due to events of force majeure or other unforeseeable circumstances beyond its control (e.g. natural disasters, fire, flooding, official orders, pandemics, war, strike or other unforeseeable events), the association’s obligation to provide the accommodation shall cease.

Queen Dollars already charged will be fully credited back to the member. Further claims, in particular for damages or reimbursement of travel, accommodation or other consequential costs, are excluded to the extent permitted by law.

Events of force majeure on the part of the member do not generally release them from the agreed cancellation conditions.

7. Deviations in Individual Cases

The association may, in justified individual cases, deviate in whole or in part from the above cancellation conditions. There is no legal entitlement to this.

By submitting the booking you confirm that you have read and accept these conditions.

House Rules on the BDSM Finca

We appreciate free-thinking and stylish guests and value mutual respect and appropriate manners.

• A “No” must be respected without exception. For BDSM activities the SSC principle (Safe, Sane, Consensual) always applies.
• Smoking is only permitted outdoors. Please put cigarette butts in the ashtrays. Smoking is prohibited indoors.
• All rooms, equipment, toys, furniture and BDSM furniture must be used with care. In the event of damage, destruction or loss, the person responsible is liable for the resulting damage.
• Controlled alcohol consumption in pleasant company is welcome – however, please know and respect your own limits.
• Photographing and filming other people on the finca is prohibited without their explicit permission.
• When using the association’s offers, applicable law must be observed and the rights of third parties must not be violated. Acts and substances prohibited under applicable law are forbidden on the finca premises. In the event of violations, members may be temporarily or permanently excluded from association activities.

We look forward to your visit and a wonderful, respectful time together!

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