BDSM Weekend for Beginners

BDSM Discovery Retreat on El Hierro

Discover the Art of Pleasure – A Gentle Introduction to the World of BDSM

For couples, women and men (maximum 6 participants)

Welcome to a special weekend that brings you closer to the fascinating world of BDSM. BDSM is far more than just ropes and whips – it is an art of pleasure, an intense play with power, surrender and sensuality that can elevate your sexuality to a new level. During this Discovery Retreat, we guide you gently and respectfully, without pressure or obligation. No one has to do anything they don’t want to.

Discover what BDSM really is – The Art of Pleasure

Organized by the Queen's Club and led by Queen Josephine and Slave D. – an experienced BDSM couple who have authentically lived this lifestyle for many years – the event takes place on our private BDSM Finca on El Hierro. The small, exclusive group (max. 6 people: couples, solo women or solo men) guarantees an intimate, personal and completely discreet atmosphere.

A pleasurable and respectful weekend with open-minded people

Friday evening to Sunday afternoon
Price: €250 per person (all-inclusive: accommodation, full board with all drinks, workshops, seminars and use of all play areas and equipment)

Suitable for: Absolute beginners or those with little experience who are curious. Couples looking to enrich their relationship, solo women and men who want to experiment in a safe environment.

Whether dominant, submissive, sadistic, masochistic, kinky, fetish-oriented or switch – all orientations (hetero, bi, gay, lesbian) are warmly welcome.

Why this weekend?

Many people have fantasies but don’t dare to live them out – due to shame, fear of judgment or uncertainty.

We show you: BDSM is neither perverse nor sick. It is a respectful, intense form of pleasure between consenting adults. Here you can explore your boundaries, discover your own BDSM style and find new qualities in your sexuality – in a relaxed, open-minded and supportive community.

Weekend Schedule

Friday – Arrival and Introduction

• Afternoon/evening: Arrival and welcome on the Finca with a glass of sparkling wine, wine or beer.
• Casual get-to-know-you round.
• Introductory seminar: BDSM basics, rules (safety, consent, safe words), respect and what BDSM really means.
• Shared dinner.
• Exchange workshop: Discussing ideas, fantasies, concerns and boundaries – a relaxed gathering to build trust.

Saturday – Intensive Day of Theory and Practice

• Shared breakfast.
• Morning: Equipment introduction – from handcuffs to whips and BDSM furniture. We explore and explain everything on site.
• All-day workshops: Theoretical and practical exploration of key play styles (e.g. bondage, sensation play, power dynamics). Always sensitive, guided and at your own pace.
• Afternoon: Building a session – preparation, execution and aftercare.
• Shared dinner.
• Evening: Optional play (as a couple or with others) in our BDSM cave (dungeon). Those who wish can participate actively (with our support), while others can simply watch and relax. Drinks, casual atmosphere, open end – go to bed whenever you like.

Sunday – Reflection and Farewell

• Shared breakfast.
• Feedback round: Open discussion of experiences, feelings and questions. We help process everything and give tips for home.
• Relaxed wind-down and departure in the afternoon.

Everything takes place in a completely relaxed atmosphere – with plenty of space for breaks, conversations and individual needs. Safety, consent and respect are always our top priorities.

Your Benefits

You’ll go home with new insights about yourself, practical experience and the knowledge of how to integrate BDSM safely and pleasurably into your life. Many participants report greater self-confidence, deeper intimacy in relationships and liberated sexuality.

If you have questions, uncertainties or would like a personal preliminary chat, feel free to contact us – we’ll take time for you.

We look forward to meeting open and curious people like you!

Queen Josephine & Slave D.

Queen's Club – BDSM Finca El Hierro