Orgasm Control: 30 Days of Chastity

The Complete Plan – for Beginners & Advanced 

Imagine: For 30 days, desire builds like a hurricane, every touch becomes torture, and at the end it explodes in an orgasm that eclipses everything before. This complete plan with cage, daily tasks, and edging rules gets you (and your sub) safely through the 30 days – without frustration, without health risks, and with a level of surrender you'll never forget. Read it once, lock the cage tonight – and count the days until they only whisper: "Please, Mistress…"

30 days without orgasm are the absolute kick for most – or total horror. With this plan, it works without frustration, without health problems, and with maximum intensity.

Tease and Denial orgasm control 1 2 scaled 2 1024x684The 4 Basic Rules that Always Apply

  1. No orgasm = no ejaculation (women: no clitoral/vaginal climax)
  2. Edging is allowed and desired (as often as possible!)
  3. No "accidental" cumming → in case of rule break, immediately back to day 1
  4. Daily short check-in (via message or live)

Material List

  • Chastity belt/cage (metal or high-quality silicone – cheap = skin problems)
  • Numbered plastic lock or smart lock with app
  • Water-based lube
  • Journal or app ("Obedience" or "Chastity 30 Days")

Week 1 – The Gentle Entry (Day 1–7)

Goal: Get body and mind used to the new reality

DayAllowed StimulationMandatory
1 5 min edging, then ice cubes Photo of locked cage + "Day 1"
2 10 min edging, stop 3× right before cumming Daily report: How does the tension feel?
3 Vibrator 8 min on lowest setting 10 squats with cage
4 Oral from partner until just before orgasm Say "Thank you for controlling me"
5 15 min edging + nipple clamps Ice cubes 2 min on balls/nipples
6 Completely forbidden – only petting Photo + "I belong to you"
7 Reward: 20 min edging + permission to almost cum Check-in conversation: How's it really going?

Week 2 – The First Peak (Day 8–14)

Here it gets serious – most want to quit now.

DayTaskExtra Challenge
8 3× daily 10 min edging Then 10 min standing in corner
9 Wear plug all day Write "Thank you" every hour
10 Vibrator on medium until yellow → stop Ice cubes right after
11 Completely forbidden – only mental stimulation Write 50 lines: "I only cum for you"
12 Partner may lick/rub until 3 sec. before cumming Then cold shower
13 Open cage → 30 min edging → lock again Video of almost cumming
14 Rest day – only petting + praise Big check-in: Limits? Wishes?

Week 3 – The Dark Phase (Day 15–21)

Here comes the famous "Day 18 Crash" – many quit. Not with this plan.

DayTaskAnti-Crash Trick
15 Continuous edging: every 2 hours 5 min Lots of water + magnesium
16 Anal training + prostate massage (no cumming!) Then warm blanket + cuddling
17 Completely forbidden – only stimulate nipples & neck Journal: "How much do I want to cum?"
18 Reward: 45 min edging + vibrator Directly after 10 min meditation
19 Cage stays locked – only mental humiliation 100 lines "I am your property"
20 Partner may lick/rub until red → stop Immediate aftercare + praise
21 Rest day + extensive check-in Decision: 9 more days or reward?

Week 4 – The Final Countdown (Day 22–30)

Now it's only about holding out and the perfect finale.

DayTaskHighlight
22–27 Increase daily: 3–5× edging + toys + humiliation Every evening photo + thank you message
28 Cage stays locked – only petting + dirty talk Preparation for day 30
29 Last big edging (60 min) + almost cumming Tears are allowed – that's the peak
30 The big orgasm – exactly as the Dom / Domme wants it Then 60 min intensive aftercare

Version for Beginners (if 30 days are too intense)

  • Day 1–10 normal
  • Day 11–20 only edging, no cage
  • Day 21–30 cage at night + edging during day
  • Orgasm on day 30 exactly as above

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Safety & Health (This is NO JOKE)

  • Clean cage daily (removable under supervision possible)
  • In case of pain, blue balls, numbness → stop immediately
  • Milk prostate every 7–10 days (medically sensible)
  • Drink lots, magnesium, zinc, no alcohol

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The Sentence You Should Tell Yourself Every Morning

"My orgasm no longer belongs to me. And exactly that makes me free."

If you've made it to day 30, you'll never be the same sub again – and your Dom will own you on a new level.