Kinky BDSM Holiday for Gays on El Hierro Play hard. Relax deep. Use a real slave.

Welcome to our BDSM Kinky Finca on the island of El Hierro – a place where intense play, pure nature and absolute privacy come together.

Whether as a gay couple or solo: here you can live out your kinky desires without compromise and at the same time enjoy the peace and power of one of the most beautiful and remote Canary Islands.

What we offer

• HOLIDAY
  Kinky Holiday Stay in our 25 m² chalet apartment with private bathroom. The fully equipped play dungeon is at your free disposal throughout your entire stay. Ideal for couples or solo guests who want space, nature and unlimited playtime.
  
  
• DAY GUEST
  Dungeon rental by the hour Just want to play for a few hours? You can rent our high-quality equipped BDSM play dungeon by the hour – ideal as a day guest. (On request including the sex slave)

What the finca offers – Comfort & Privacy

Your accommodation as a holiday guest

We offer two cosy guest cottages (approx. 25 m² each), specially designed for couples or up to 4 people:

• Double bed + sofa bed
• Private bathroom with toilet and shower
• Tea/coffee maker, hairdryer, WiFi throughout the entire property
• Private small garden with sea view, sun loungers, parasol, garden table, chairs and private barbecue

The cottages are lovingly furnished and offer everything you need for a relaxed stay – whether you travel alone, as a couple or with up to four people.

Communal area:

• Large outdoor kitchen with fridge, gas stove and fully equipped kitchen facilities
• Large barbecue and traditional wood-fired pizza oven
• Large communal table for sociable evenings

The BDSM Play Dungeon – Your private paradise

The absolute highlight of our finca is the fully equipped BDSM play dungeon. It is available to all guests free of charge and around the clock.

The equipment includes, among other things:

Permanently installed equipment St. Andrew’s Cross · Slave chair · CBT chair · Punishment bench · Bondage table/bed · Gynaecological chair · Sling · Rimming & licking toilet chair · Electric winch · Cage · Master/Femdom throne · Pillory · Foot pillory · Spanish horse · Anal pillory

Toys & accessories (on request) Various whips & impact toys · CBT crushers & devices · Wartenberg wheels · Kink utensils · Dildos & plugs from L to XXXL · Masks · Sybian · Fucking machine · Electro stimulation devices with various accessories · Reciprocating saw with dildo attachment · Chains · Ropes · Clamps · Extensive bondage options and much more

Additionally: Music system and stable WiFi (also ideal for livestreams).

• The dungeon is professionally equipped, discreet, with good music and the possibility of livestreaming (on request).
• You can use the play dungeon alone or with your partner – or use SlaveD

For day guests:

• The play dungeon must be reserved for day guests at least 24 hours in advance (sometimes shorter notice is also possible).
• Booking requests preferably via WhatsApp or Telegram directly to Queen Josephine. The rental is done as a day guest.
• Ready for intense, private and undisturbed play? Write to us – we look forward to hearing from you.
• Reservation: +34 684 741 855 WhatsApp / Telegram

SlaveD – at your free disposal

On request, SlaveD is available to all guests free of charge as a sex slave (holiday guests and day guests).

SlaveD is a willing, devoted and masochistic bi sex slave and the property of Femdom Queen Josephine. He is experienced, resilient and open to dirty, intense and versatile sex.

What is possible with SlaveD:

• Flatrate blowjob & fuck toy
• Deepthroat
• Fisting
• BDSM (from soft to hard)
• Bareback
• Cum play
• Piss play
• etc.

He is there to be used – according to your wishes and within clearly agreed boundaries.

The location – El Hierro

El Hierro is a paradise for everyone who loves nature, silence and authenticity. Volcanic landscapes, the sea, hiking trails and almost no mass tourism. After intense sessions you can regenerate in pure nature – or simply enjoy the peace.

El Hierro – Nature paradise right on the doorstep

El Hierro is one of the most original and quietest Canary Islands:

• Spectacular lava landscapes and primary forests
• Hiking directly from the finca
• Diving, e-bike tours, paragliding, cave tours
• Relaxing with sea view and absolute quiet

Perfect for everyone who is looking not only for an intense BDSM holiday, but also for real recovery, nature and activity.

Who is this for?

• Gay couples looking for a kinky holiday with privacy and real play space
• Solo gay men who want to combine intense play with nature and relaxation
• Day guests who simply want to rent the dungeon and, if desired, use SlaveD

Our prices 

Clear and direct

This is not a classic gay resort and not a pure sex party location. It is a private BDSM finca with a high-quality play dungeon, comfortable accommodation and the possibility to use an experienced, devoted sex slave.

You decide how intense your stay becomes. We provide the space, the equipment – and on request the slave.

Interested? Get in touch and tell us what you are looking for.

Authentic BDSM Slave Holiday with Queen Josephine

Become the slave of a real Queen – a genuine roleplay

Spend your holiday as a personal slave on our BDSM finca – no studio, no staging, no porn fantasy, but our real life.

Are you looking for an authentic slave holiday as a real slave of a Queen?

ATTENTION – This must be clear from the start: This is NOT a dominatrix stay where your wishes are the focus and a dominatrix works through your BDSM wish list and serves your pleasure. It is exactly the opposite: You serve a Mistress.

You are looking for the opportunity to be, for a limited time, a real slave of a dominant, sadistic Mistress and Queen – 24/7 – to be used in the service of a real Mistress.

At the Queen’s Club BDSM Finca on El Hierro we (Queen Josephine with SlaveD) live BDSM as a lifestyle.
What does that mean? It is not about 24-hour continuous sessions in latex with a whip. It is about the authentic everyday life of a Queen with her slave and your place as a guest slave within it: as a serving slave whose only task is to be used together with SlaveD, to serve, and to take care of Queen Josephine’s well-being.

Your place in our BDSM everyday life

You live and serve together with the main slave SlaveD. Your tasks cover the entire domestic and personal area: from morning coffee brought to the Queen’s bed, to drinks, cooking, cleaning, laundry and garden work, to massage, foot care and smaller handyman tasks. You are butler, servant, working slave and – when the Queen wishes – also pleasure slave.

You will be used and treated like a real slave. There is no slave wish list that is worked through. But you will experience a real, authentic slave life. Of course, fantasies, preferences and taboos are taken into account. However, whether and when the Mistress uses you more intensively also for the satisfaction of her kinky fantasies & lust depends on your behaviour and her desire.

Sexual intercourse with the Queen is essentially excluded. Slaves have no right to fuck. In very, very rare exceptions she also uses a male slave for her sexual satisfaction, but do not count on it. Being allowed to satisfy her orally or manually is more possible, but only if she feels like it with you.

When we live out sessions in our play dungeon or also outdoors, you can be part of them. We play creatively and versatilely and are open from soft to hard, from sweet to dirty. Taboo lists and preferences are the guidelines that are always respected – because sessions should give pleasure and fun to everyone.

You will be kept chaste the entire time. No orgasm rights, not even during sessions. A permanent, controlled state of arousal in you is deliberately encouraged – it supports your devotion and willingness to serve as a slave.

What this offer is not

This is not a 24/7 porn staging and not a holiday in a dominatrix studio. You do not walk around all day in latex or as a sissy. On the finca the collar is mandatory at all times. But in everyday life we mostly wear normal clothes or are often simply naked. BDSM is constantly present as a background noise because it is our lived lifestyle – not because we are acting out an unrealistic porn fantasy. When we leave the house/finca, meet friends or go on outings, you are there as a slave to serve – but discreetly, correctly and unobtrusively.

Requirements

We are looking for men and women with genuine devotion and the inner willingness to put themselves completely at the disposal of an attractive, sexy and dominant Mistress. Required are alertness, good situational awareness, cleanliness, good manners and the ability to be both present and reserved.

What is decisive is the serious will and the ability to serve authentically and humbly.

Application and selection process

Our roleplay “being the slave of the Queen” already begins with your application. You are not simply applying for a stay, but to become the slave of the Queen.

This offer is NOT a dominatrix service that you can simply book or buy. As it is a very personal, intimate and intense experience, we carefully select our slaves. With the application process our game begins, and therefore it takes place in several stages:

1. Your application

You first apply via the contact form to SlaveD. If your application is of basic interest to us, you will then receive your personal access to our free online slave course. “Training to become the slave of the Queen”

2. The training to become the slave of the Queen

In the free online course “Training to become the slave of the Queen”  (duration: 7 days) you learn everything you need to know for your possible slave stay. This includes, among other things, the rules on the finca, the correct behaviour towards the Queen, her expectations and preferences, as well as the basics of correct service, etc.

Already regard this training as part of the roleplay “being the slave of the Queen”. Therefore take the course seriously, work through the content attentively and show us that you really want to enter into your role as a slave.

3. The final examination

At the end of the course a final examination awaits you. Only if you pass it successfully will you receive the certificate “Slave of the Queen”.

4. Qualification for your slave holiday

With the passed examination and the certificate you have reached the next step: You are now ready for your slave holiday as the slave of the Queen. Only now does your application move to the next phase and we discuss the further steps with you.

The entire application process is already part of your journey: You are not simply applying for a holiday – you are working to earn your place as the slave of the Queen.

Costs

This is not a dominatrix service. You do not pay for sessions. We have no financial interests. You also receive no payment – you are a real slave who is being used. Nevertheless, costs will arise for you:

You yourself bear the costs for:

• the journey to El Hierro (approx. 500–700 €)
• accommodation on the Queen’s Club Finca (BDSM bungalow, 25 m², with private bathroom or slave cell) & access to the play dungeon (from 140 € per night)
• meals and free drinks on the Queen’s Club Finca (49.90 € per day)

You live in your own BDSM bungalow or a slave cell on the finca.

This is real

This is the opportunity to become, for a certain time, part of a real BDSM lifestyle – as a serving slave of a Queen and noble lady. Everything she says and wants is law. You are there to be used.

If this is exactly what you are looking for – and you are prepared to prepare thoroughly beforehand and to prove yourself – then apply.

Applications exclusively via SlaveD.

Authentischer BDSM-Sklavenurlaub bei Queen Josephine

Ein exklusives, reales Erlebnis – kein Studio, keine Inszenierung, sondern gelebter Sklavenalltag

Werde für begrenzte Zeit der persönliche Sklave oder die persönliche Sklavin einer echten Königin.
Kein Domina-Studio, keine abgehakte Wunschliste, kein Pornofilm – sondern unser reales Leben auf der BDSM-Finca auf El Hierro.

Du suchst die Möglichkeit, wirklich und authentisch als Sklave/Sklavin gehalten zu werden – 24 Stunden am Tag, mit echten Aufgaben, echter Hierarchie und echter Nutzung. Gleichzeitig möchtest du, dass deine eigenen Fantasien, Neigungen und Tabus ernst genommen und – soweit möglich – erfüllt werden.

Genau das bieten wir.

Was dich erwartet

Du lebst und dienst gemeinsam mit dem Hauptsklaven SlaveD im realen Alltag von Queen Josephine. Deine Aufgaben umfassen den gesamten häuslichen und persönlichen Bereich: morgens den Kaffee ans Bett der Queen, Getränke servieren, kochen, reinigen, Wäsche, Gartenarbeit, Massage, Fußpflege und kleinere handwerkliche Tätigkeiten. Du bist Butler, Diener, Arbeitssklave/Arbeitssklavin und – wenn die Queen es wünscht – auch Lustsklave/Lustsklavin.

Gleichzeitig ist dieses Erlebnis auf dich zugeschnitten.
Deine Fantasien, Neigungen und Tabus werden im Vorfeld ausführlich besprochen und in den Alltag und die Sessions integriert. Du bekommst die Möglichkeit, all deine intensiven Sklavenfantasien auszuleben – solange sie legal sind und keine bleibenden Spuren hinterlassen.

Von strenger 24/7-Sklavenhaltung über kreative Sessions in der Spielhöhle bis hin zu outdoor-Szenarien: Wir spielen vielfältig, kreativ und intensiv – soft bis hart, sweet bis dirty. Deine Grenzen und Wünsche sind dabei die Leitplanken.

Du wirst die gesamte Zeit keusch gehalten. Kein Orgasmus-Recht, auch nicht in den Sessions. Eine dauerhafte, kontrollierte Erregung wird bewusst gefördert – sie vertieft deine Hingabe und Dienstbereitschaft.

Was dieses Angebot nicht ist

Dies ist keine klassische Domina-Dienstleistung, bei der du einfach deine Wunschliste abarbeitst.
Es ist auch keine 24/7-Porno-Inszenierung, in der du den ganzen Tag in Latex oder als Sissy herumläufst.

Auf der Finca ist das Halsband jederzeit Pflicht. Im Alltag tragen wir überwiegend normale Kleidung oder sind nackt. BDSM ist ständig als gelebter Lebensstil präsent – nicht als künstliche Show. Wenn wir die Finca verlassen, bist du als Sklave/Sklavin dabei, um zu dienen – diskret, korrekt und unauffällig.

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Voraussetzungen

Gesucht werden Männer und Frauen mit echter Devotion und der inneren Bereitschaft, sich einer hübschen, sexy und dominanten Herrin vollständig zur Verfügung zu stellen. Erforderlich sind Wachsamkeit, gutes Situationsbewusstsein, Sauberkeit, Anstand und die Fähigkeit, sowohl präsent als auch zurückhaltend zu sein.

Entscheidend ist der ernsthafte Wille, authentisch und demütig zu dienen – und gleichzeitig den Mut zu haben, die eigenen tiefsten Fantasien offenzulegen.

Kosten

Dieses Erlebnis ist exklusiv und aufwendig. Der Preis beträgt:

150 € pro Nacht
zuzüglich Unterkunft und Verpflegung

Enthalten im Nachtpreis ist die intensive, persönliche Betreuung und Nutzung durch Queen Josephine und SlaveD sowie die Möglichkeit, deine Fantasien innerhalb der vereinbarten Grenzen auszuleben.

Zusätzlich trägst du:

• Anreise nach El Hierro
• Unterkunft auf der Finca (BDSM-Bungalow 25 m² mit eigenem Bad oder Sklavenzelle)
• Verpflegung und Getränke (aktuell 49,90 € pro Tag)

Das ist echt

Dies ist die seltene Möglichkeit, für eine begrenzte Zeit Teil eines realen BDSM-Lebensstils zu werden – als dienender Sklave/dienende Sklavin einer echten Königin.

Alles, was sie sagt und will, ist Gesetz.
Du bist da, um gebraucht zu werden – und gleichzeitig bekommst du die Chance, deine eigenen tiefsten Sklavenfantasien in einem sicheren, professionellen und absolut authentischen Rahmen zu erleben.

Wenn du genau das suchst – und bereit bist, dich gründlich vorzubereiten und zu beweisen – dann bewirb dich.

Bewerbungen ausschließlich über SlaveD.

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One Week for Both of You –

Discover Femdom and Female Dominance in a New and Lustful Way

Many couples find themselves at a similar point:

He has carried the longing within himself for years to surrender to her – as a slave, in the devoted role, to be dominated and led. Some dream of it only in bed, others wish for a deeper dynamic up to 24/7.

She, on the other hand, experiences it very differently: Some feel overwhelmed, insecure or still have little personal desire for the dominant role. Others do feel interest or even enthusiasm – and yet stumble over inner blockages, shame, insecurity, the pressure of “having to do it right” or the fear of only serving his fantasies. Many women experience that the responsibility suddenly becomes a burden, that they feel like a service provider, or that everyday life, family and work make the dynamic more difficult.

Exactly for these couples – no matter where you currently stand – there is our holiday week with coaching for FEMDOM couples.

We help you find a dynamic in which she discovers her very own form of female dominance – one that suits her, that arouses her and that fills her with genuine joy and lust. Not simply to work through his wish list, but so that both of you have fun and pleasure in it.

BDSM and Femdom are not a simple “hit and slap” exercise and not a ready-made role-play from a film. It is an art of lust – creative, deep, connecting and infinitely diverse. Properly understood and carefully explored, it can sustainably enrich your sexuality and your partnership.

What awaits you this week

On the beautiful island of El Hierro you will primarily spend a relaxing couple’s holiday: nature, hiking, bathing coves, sea, bike tours, diving – or simply relaxation and time together.

In addition, there are 1.5–2 hours of individual coaching and gentle play sessions every day (in the evenings or at times that suit you). Accommodation and use of the play dungeon are included.

We, Queen Josephine and her sub SlaveD, will accompany you:

• with over 30 years of experience in the BDSM field
• as a couple who have lived this dynamic for almost 10 years and know the typical initial, everyday and integration difficulties from their own experience
• and as a psychologically and therapeutically trained team (sexual, family and couple therapists)

Together we look at your individual situation: fears, shame, blockages, secret wishes, family and professional reality, everyday life. We explore and deepen the world of BDSM with you – what there is, why and how real lust arises, how to play safely and lustfully. In our play dungeon you can try things out, discover and get to know them without performance pressure and without “having to”.

We take you by the hand and lead you slowly and carefully to where both of you can find genuine lust and fulfilment. No right or wrong. No compulsion. Only discovery – in your own way.

The goal is a genuine win-win situation: A dynamic that enriches both of you, deepens your connection and makes your sexuality sustainably more positive and lustful – whether you are just curious or have already had first experiences and are now looking for the next, more sustainable level.

What is included

Included in the price are:

• 5 × 1.5–2 hours of coaching and play with us
• 7 overnight stays in the cosy 25 m² wooden bungalow with private bathroom & sea view as well as small garden
• Outdoor bar with communal kitchen (fridge, barbecue, pizza oven) and large dining table
• Professionally equipped BDSM play dungeon with a wide variety of play possibilities
• Outdoor play areas on the finca grounds

Price: 570 € plus accommodation on the finca

Not included: Travel to El Hierro and meals

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Who we are

Queen Josephine & SlaveD

The couple behind the Femdom Couple Coaching Week

Queen Josephine and SlaveD have lived and worked for many years as a couple in a realistic, loving and intensively lived FLR/Femdom relationship. What distinguishes them is the rare combination of solid psychological and therapeutic competence, decades of BDSM experience and the authenticity of a couple that not only teaches this dynamic but lives it every day.

Queen Josephine studied law, psychology and political science. About ten years ago she was introduced to the world of BDSM by her partner SlaveD. What began as curiosity developed into a deep passion. Today she lives and embodies a playful, lovingly strict female dominance. She enjoys leadership and control, takes pleasure in her playful sadism and is a pronounced reaction fetishist – she reads and enjoys the fine reactions of her counterpart. As a coach and therapist (couple, family and sexual therapy) she accompanies people in finding their own form of dominance and lust – without pressure, without clichés, with a lot of sensitivity and clarity.

SlaveD is a graduate psychologist, therapist, coach, lecturer and book author. He brings over 30 years of experience in BDSM, initially as a switcher, today as a sub and masochistic slave of Queen Josephine in a 24/7 Femdom dynamic. His psychological and therapeutic expertise, combined with lived submission, makes him a particularly empathetic and clear companion for men and couples who want to take the path into surrender.

Together they live BDSM not as a porn fantasy, but as a lifestyle: as a loving, deeply connected couple and strong team that supports each other, with a lot of depth, humour and mutual respect. In their FLR relationship they see themselves mentally as equals – the transfer of power is conscious, consensual and enriching for both. They understand BDSM as a lustful art that can deepen partnership and sexuality when it is lived authentically and with genuine mutual mindfulness.

Exactly this attitude and experience they bring into the coaching week: They know the uncertainties, blockages and challenges from their own practice and accompany couples carefully, competently and without performance pressure on the path to a dynamic that is right and lustful for both.

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Getting to El Hierro for your BDSM Holiday

There are several ways to reach El Hierro:

1. Via Gran Canaria (flight)

Book a flight to Gran Canaria (LPA).
From there you fly with the Canarian airline Binter onwards to El Hierro (VDE). (Luggage must be rechecked.)

• Last flight: approx. 16:00
• Price (non-residents): approx. 125 € per person one way
• Recommendation: Arrive at LPA before 15:00

2. Via Tenerife South (ferry)

International direct flights usually land at Tenerife South (TFS).
From the airport take a taxi (approx. 25 €) to the port or bus (to the centre; approx. 3 €) of Los Cristianos.
From there the ferry goes to El Hierro (Valverde), usually only one ferry per day.

• Ferry departure: approx. 17:00, Saturdays 12:00 (Fred Olsen)
• Price (non-residents): approx. 55 € per person one way
• Recommendation: Arrive at TFS before 15:00

3. Via Tenerife North (flight)

Flights from the Spanish mainland and other islands usually land at Tenerife North (TFN).
From there Binter flies directly to El Hierro (VDE).

• Last flight: approx. 17:30
• Price (non-residents): approx. 89 €

We are happy to help you find suitable flights.

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Booking and Payment

Booking and Cancellation Conditions

1. Membership and Booking Requirements

Registration is required to book accommodation.
If the booker is not yet registered or not yet a member, registration takes place automatically during the booking process. Booking of accommodation is reserved exclusively for association members.

With registration the booker automatically becomes a Patron Member of the association. Membership is free of charge.

Bookings can only be made via the association’s booking website. A booking is only confirmed after full payment has been received.

2. Non-Cancellability and Flex Booking

A confirmed booking is generally non-cancellable.

Optionally, an extra FLEX BOOKING can be added when booking. With the Flex Booking it is possible to change the booking free of charge to another date up to 30 days before arrival at the latest.

Timely written notification (by e-mail) is required. The amount already paid will be credited to the member as Queen Dollars (QD) on the profile account. With these Queen Dollars the member can independently book a new date or use the Queen Dollars elsewhere on the association website.

A cash refund is excluded in all cases.

3. Cancellation and Rebooking Fees (ONLY WITH FLEX BOOKING)

If a cancellation or rebooking takes place less than 30 days before arrival, the following cancellation fees apply:

• Up to 4 weeks before arrival: 100 % refund in Queen Dollars (QD)
• Up to 3 weeks before arrival: 25 % cancellation fee
• Up to 2 weeks before arrival: 50 % cancellation fee
• Up to 1 week before arrival: 75 % cancellation fee
• From 7 days before arrival or in case of no-show: 100 % cancellation fee

The member expressly reserves the right to prove that the association has suffered no damage or substantially less damage.

Rebookings are considered a cancellation of the original booking followed by a new booking.

4. Substitute Person

The member may name a substitute person at any time. This does not incur any cancellation costs.

5. Early Departure

No refund will be given for unused overnight stays.

6. Force Majeure

If the association is unable to provide the booked accommodation due to events of force majeure or other unforeseeable circumstances beyond its control (e.g. natural disasters, fire, flooding, official orders, pandemics, war, strike or other unforeseeable events), the association’s obligation to provide the accommodation shall cease.

Queen Dollars already charged will be fully credited back to the member. Further claims, in particular for damages or reimbursement of travel, accommodation or other consequential costs, are excluded to the extent permitted by law.

Events of force majeure on the part of the member do not generally release them from the agreed cancellation conditions.

7. Deviations in Individual Cases

The association may, in justified individual cases, deviate in whole or in part from the above cancellation conditions. There is no legal entitlement to this.

By submitting the booking you confirm that you have read and accept these conditions.

House Rules on the BDSM Finca

We appreciate free-thinking and stylish guests and value mutual respect and appropriate manners.

• A “No” must be respected without exception. For BDSM activities the SSC principle (Safe, Sane, Consensual) always applies.
• Smoking is only permitted outdoors. Please put cigarette butts in the ashtrays. Smoking is prohibited indoors.
• All rooms, equipment, toys, furniture and BDSM furniture must be used with care. In the event of damage, destruction or loss, the person responsible is liable for the resulting damage.
• Controlled alcohol consumption in pleasant company is welcome – however, please know and respect your own limits.
• Photographing and filming other people on the finca is prohibited without their explicit permission.
• When using the association’s offers, applicable law must be observed and the rights of third parties must not be violated. Acts and substances prohibited under applicable law are forbidden on the finca premises. In the event of violations, members may be temporarily or permanently excluded from association activities.

We look forward to your visit and a wonderful, respectful time together!

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